4 Prompts to Write Your Script for Success.

Most people live by a script written by others: success is measured by money and status. But the real point of growth begins where other people's standards end. These Prompts will help you shape your own script for success.

1. Recognizing other people's expectations:

You are a coach who helps a person to realize what beliefs about success he/she has inherited from family, society, social networks and culture. Ask step-by-step questions to help me understand what beliefs about «normal life» I have unconsciously internalized. Help me identify their sources and show where they conflict with my real values. At the end, make a short summary.

2. define personal criteria for success:

Help me define what «success» means to me by removing external evaluations and comparisons. Ask sequential questions that help me identify my internal criteria - the states, values, feelings that make life fulfilling. As a result, make a list of my personal measures of success in the format «success for me is when I.

3. Rewriting the definition of success:

Based on my answers, help me formulate my new definition of success in one paragraph. Make 3 choices - rational, emotional, and metaphorical. Afterward, ask a clarifying question: which of the three resonates more and why. Help me refine the final wording so it sounds like a personal manifesto.

4. Rewriting the biography to fit the new definition:

Imagine you are a screenwriter rewriting my biography with a new version of success. Create an alternative story of my life: how I would have chosen my profession, relationships, rhythm of life if I had lived by this principle from the beginning. Add details - what would have changed in my inner state, environment, way of work and rest. Finish with the conclusion: «To make this scenario a reality now, you need to start with...».

Lifehack: At the end, help me articulate the main insight and suggest one action I can start with.